All those "pearls" coming in are beautiful. As long as you get to be the grandmother and not the mother!! Remember those agonizing "teething" days? As grandmama you get to hand Lily back over to her mother and let her cope with it 24/7. It's only fair--we put in all those years of that stuff with our own kids. Now it's time to sit back and just enjoy the process and watch in amazement as a child grows and becomes a "real" little person. I'm envious--no grandkids myself yet. Both daughters are still pursuing educations, and I've always pounded into them how important that is before starting a family. You, Lessa (Karen) and Jan are all so lucky to be able to watch your grandchild grow!